Popular family life coach and Christian marriage counsellor, Pastor Bisi Adewale, has advised intending couples not to get married if they are not comfortable with sexual intimacy.
Adewale took to social media to stress the importance of physical connection in marriage, saying many couples treat lovemaking as a duty rather than a bond.
“If you don’t like lovemaking, don’t get married. All these missionary journeys that we normally do, we must stop. When you enter the bedroom with your husband, you must never be decent, you must be recent,” he said.
The pastor further encouraged couples, especially women, to keep their marital intimacy exciting and memorable rather than routine or mechanical.
“Strange women outside don’t sleep with men; they sleep with the memory of men. But an average African woman will only sleep with the genital of the husband. You are to give him something to remember even when he gets to the office,” he added.
Adewale’s remarks have sparked online reactions, with some netizens applauding his openness on an unconventional topic, while others engage in debates about the cultural and religious implications of his message.
